Lucid Dreaming
The
Six Basic Steps
There
are many techniques and methods that you
can use for inducing lucid dreams, but
there is an underlying process behind
most, if not all of them. I have broken
this underlying process down into six
basic steps to serve as a foundation for
your lucid dream training. Once you absorb
these steps and start following them,
it is only a matter of time before you
have your first lucid dream.
In case you
are wondering how long it will take for
you to have your first one, just follow
through with the steps and have faith
that you will
have one. Statistically, the time it takes
for someone to have their first lucid
dream averages from three weeks to two
months, but yours may be tonight, but
don't be discouraged if you try for a
while and don't
succeed. There seems to be an obsession
in our society for instant results. If
you are one of these people, realize that
this is one of your first obstacles to
overcome. Only one thing is certain: If
you never stop trying, you are guaranteed
to succeed.
The
Six Basic Steps
1)
Doing the Mental Prep-Work
2)
Increasing dream
recall
3)
Keeping a dream
journal
4)
Becoming familiar with
your Dreams
5)
Adding Awareness to your
Waking Consciousness
6)
Linking your Awareness
to your Dreams
Step
One) Doing the Mental Prep-Work
This
step involves setting up the right mental
foundation and building a mental framework
that will maximize your success. In order
to do this, you must take a look at your
belief systems. I can't emphasize enough
the crucial role that our belief systems
play in determining our experience. As
you develop your ability to lucid dream,
you will be directly interacting with
your thoughts and your belief systems,
and you will be able to experience first
hand how important it is to manage your
thoughts.
Here
are four key questions that you need to
ask yourself. Do you think you can do
this? Do you think dreams are important?
Do you really want to have lucid dreams?
Do you know what you will do when you
become lucid? Not only should you be asking
yourself these questions, but you should
also be taking an active part in strengthening
these beliefs, or changing them if that
is the case. Let's go over each of these
questions to emphasize what kind of mental
prep-work you need to be doing.
"Do
you think you can do this?" For starters,
you must always have a positive attitude.
If you have any doubts, then your first
assignment is to replace each and every
doubt with a self-empowering belief. If
you think lucid dreaming is some rare
phenomenon, realize that it is a natural
ability. If you think it is going to be
difficult, assure yourself that it will
come naturally. Just remember, tying your
shoes as a child was difficult but with
time it became second nature, and so too
will lucid dreaming. As soon as you have
your first lucid dream, it'll be that
much easier to have a second one, and
a third one, and in due time you will
be having them consistently.
"Do
you think dreams are important?" Once
you have a positive, confident attitude,
the next step is to make dreaming a top
priority. The simple act of believing
that your dreams are important will dramatically
increase your results. Most people don't
place any emphasis on their dreams so
they in turn don't recall many dreams,
and not surprisingly most of these people
are not even aware that it is possible
to have lucid dreams. They don't know
any better because they haven't made dreaming
a priority. You, on the other hand, will
view your dreams as important, and this
will speed up your progress substantially.
"Do
you really want to have lucid dreams?"
The key to this question is desire and
enthusiasm. The more you cultivate your
desire to have lucid dreams, the more
emotionally charged your intent will be.
The more charged your intent is, the more
likely that these desires will produce
results. Along the same lines, the more
enthusiastic you are towards learning
how to lucid dream, the more you will
absorb and the more you will be actively
drawing this experience towards you. Sending
messages to your subconscious that you
think dreams are important and that you
enthusiastically want to have them will
speed up your progress dramatically.
"Do
you know what you will do when you have
a lucid dream?" The point of this
question is to be purposefully prepared.
It sounds so simple, but just by having
a plan you increase the odds of becoming
lucid. If you have a goal or a mission
planned, you will have that much more
reason to become lucid and carry out your
mission. The plan should be well thought
out and thoroughly embedded in your mind.
Throughout the day and before going to
bed, remind yourself of your goal, and
in keeping with the last question, cultivate
a desire to fulfill your goal. In the
beginning, you may want to keep your plan
simple. Your goal may be as simple as
looking at your hands or surveying the
dreamscape or maybe you would like to
fly. As you develop the ability to prolong
your lucid dreams, you will be able to
carry out more elaborate missions.
So be positive. Replace
doubt with confidence and skepticism with
belief. View your dreams as being important.
Make dreaming a priority. Cultivate your
desire to reach your goal. Be enthusiastic.
Be prepared and have a plan. As you can
see these mental prep-work concepts do
overlap and intertwine, so start making
all of them work for you today. This mental
conditioning will not only help speed
up the lucid dreaming process, but you
can apply it to any other aspects of your
life that you want to develop.
Step Two) Increasing
Dream Recall
As
mentioned earlier, if you can't remember
your dreams it makes it that much harder
to have lucid ones. So this step focuses
on increasing your dream recall. You may
be one of the fortunate ones who remembers
a lot of dreams, but if you are not, don't
be discouraged. There are many tried and
tested methods for developing your dream
recall. There are so many effective tips
for increasing dream recall that you can
count on remembering more and more of
your dreams with a few weeks practice.
For
starters, do you really want to remember
your dreams? Why? Could you be subconsciously
blocking your own recall because you may
be afraid of what you see? These are legitimate
questions to be asking yourself. Be honest
with yourself. You must make the commitment
to yourself to increase your dream recall
because it is important to you and it
is something that you want to develop.
You need to make it a conscious priority.
After taking this step, it is just a matter
of incorporating these techniques into
your morning schedule.
Here
is a list of tips and techniques that
will help increase your dream recall:
1.)
Wake Motionlessly. Upon awakening,
don't open your eyes. Don't move. Lie
completely still.
2.)
Wake Slowly. Allow yourself time
to naturally remember your dreams. Don't
start thinking about what you are going
to do for the day. Don't allow your mind
to be flooded by your waking thoughts
or your dreams will start fading or may
even disappear entirely like bursting
dream bubbles. Let your mind be focused
on whatever you were just dreaming.
3.)
Let your mind drift. Allow your
thoughts to meander through whatever mental
imagery you may have. Once you remember
one part of a dream. Relax and allow the
rest of the pieces to fall into place.
4.)
Drift through your dream checklist.
If you have absolutely no initial recall,
then start running through a dream checklist
in your mind. This list should include
people you know, activities, places, foods,
smells, music, anything that may trigger
a dream fragment to surface. Allow your
mind to drift through this list and ask
yourself if this person or this place
was in your dream. Movement is very common
in dreams so try to think about action.
Were you walking or running or climbing
or flying? Emotions are also very prevalent
so try to think about your moods. Were
you happy or afraid or surprised or confused?
The more familiar you are with your dreams
the better you will know which questions
will most likely trigger your memory,
but in the beginning you can use any list
as long as it is a big one.
4.)
Think and question backwards. Try
to work your memory backwards from what
you can remember. You will usually remember
the most current dream scenario first
so for maximum retrieval it is helpful
to think backwards, or think in terms
of effect and cause instead of cause and
effect. If you can remember one part of
the dream, ask yourself how you got there?
Or where did a certain dream object come
from? Did you find it? Was it given to
you? One dream fragment will usually lead
to another until the whole dream starts
to take shape, and your dream memories
can be jogged by questioning yourself
about what you already remember.
5.)
Try different sleeping positions. Try
all your common sleeping positions before
getting out of bed to maximize your recall.
You will have the best recall when you
are lying in the same position that you
were in when you were dreaming. If you
wake up on your right side don't move
until you recall all you possibly can,
and then repeat this process on your left
side, then your back, and your front.
This may jar loose some memories and it
certainly speeds up your recall.
6.)
Keep Trying. Sometimes, you may
have no morning recall but flashes of
dream memories will surface during your
day. Be prepared to jot down any time-released
memories. They may unlock your access
to more memories.
If you
are still having trouble recalling your
dreams, here is a surefire method that
will have your remembering your dreams
in no time. We know that most of our dreams
occur in the last hours of our sleep so
we can safely assume that this is the
target time to be exercising our recall.
We also know that we have a much greater
likelihood of remembering a dream if we
awaken directly from it, and this leads
us to the ultimate method, the Alarm Clock
Method.
The Alarm
Clock Method: Using an alarm clock
is one of the quickest and easiest ways
to start increasing your dream recall
especially if you rarely remember your
dreams. The idea is to set your alarm
for a time when you will be dreaming and
awaken yourself from a dream while fresh
memories are still in your head. The earlier
morning hours are the best time to use
this method since this is when you are
most likely to be dreaming. Your alarm
clock will become a valuable tool for
increasing your dream recall, and in a
later section I will mention how it can
be used to induce lucid dreams. Here are
a few ways to take full advantage of your
alarm clock. Try them all to see what
works best for you
"The Early
Morning Technique" -Set your alarm
for two hours before you normally would
awaken. When it goes off, reset it to
go off in a half an hour. Do this each
time it goes off and you will have instant
and plentiful recall. This is one of the
most effective techniques because it takes
full advantage of your natural dreaming
cycle and it creates a daily target time
when you habitually practice your dreaming
skills. These few hours before you normally
awake are going to become your new training
grounds. This target time zone will be
described in much greater detail when
we cover lucid dream induction methods
and again when we take a look at the lucid
dream terrain.
Depending on
how poor your recall is you may want to
immediately write down your dreams each
time you wake up. If you don't, you may
experience what I refer to as dream superimposition.
It happens when you wake up during the
night and have vivid recall of your dreams,
so vivid that you are sure you will remember
them later; however, when you go back
to bed you have more dreams and upon reawakening
these recent dream memories have replaced
the previous ones. As you exercise your
dream recall you will find your memory
will become better so that less dream
superimposing takes place, but even after
years of training it still happens to
me sporadically.
"The Waking
at Odd Hours Technique" This technique
is pretty self-explanatory. Set your alarm
to go off at any random times throughout
the night. The advantage of this technique
is that if you are extremely eager to
develop your dreaming skills you may not
want to settle for only two hours of practice
a day. So you can use this technique along
with the previous one to maximize your
exercise.
"The Snooze
Button Method" Set your alarm for
a time before you would normally wake
up and then continually hit the snooze
button until you have to get out of bed.
This is probably the most common technique,
and the odds are that you have already
had some experience with this one unless
your alarm does not have a snooze button.
By hitting the snooze button you are constantly
coming in and out of dreams so you dramatically
increase your recall, and it is very helpful
for inducing lucid dreams as well, but
let's not get ahead of ourselves.
Step
Three) Keeping a dream journal
The single
most important thing that you can do to
increase your dream recall and to maximize
your lucid dreaming progress is to keep
a dream journal. This increases your recall
by engraining the idea that dreams are
important into your subconscious mind.
It also helps you become familiar with
your dreams which is the focus of the
next step. The habit of writing down your
dreams soon becomes a habit of recalling
your dreams. If you seriously want to
learn how to lucid dream, you MUST keep
a dream journal. It is not an option.
I strongly emphasize
this because I know from experience that
keeping a journal is a crucial part of
the process. I had been trying to lucid
dream for a year with little success until
I started keeping one. Shortly after I
started consistently making my dream journal
entries, I began to recall more dreams
with greater clarity and detail, and this
led to my first lucid dreams. Even now
after years of lucid dreaming, I still
see a correlation. If I neglect my dream
journal, my lucid dreams become less frequent.
All it usually takes is a few days of
making entries and I will be back on the
lucid track.
Here are some tips
on keeping your journal. Record all of
your dreams with as much detail as you
can. Even if something seems trivial,
you should still write it down because
it may turn out to be significant when
viewed in the long run. Write down not
only what happened during the dream but
also what you were feeling and what you
were thinking at the time. These emotional
and mental notes will help you later when
you are becoming familiar with your dreams.
This will also help you see how your daily
affairs and your waking mind influence
your dreams. For example, you may notice
during times of stress that you will have
stress-influenced dreams. You may dream
of being late for an exam or being unprepared
for a business meeting. The point is that
your dreams are sending you a message.
They are reflecting what you think and
feel at a subconscious level. Looking
at the patterns of your dreams and examining
the recurrence of certain dream themes
will tell you a lot about yourself. This
is yet another reason why keeping your
dream journal is so important. It allows
you to have an overview of your dream
patterns which are actually reflections
of an ever-changing you.
When keeping your
journal, it is best to write your entries
in present tense instead of using past
tense. For example, you would write, "I'm
walking down this street and I see a man"
instead of "I walked down this street
and I saw a man." By writing in the present
tense, you may be able to remember even
more of your dreams as you are recording
them. Also, when working with some of
the methods we will cover later like dream
reentry and dream incubation, it is best
to be thinking and recording in terms
of now not then. As an added bonus, writing
in the present tense also makes for better
reading at a later date.
With each dream
journal entry, you should include a date,
a time if you can, and a title for each
dream. To find a suitable name for your
dream, imagine if it were a movie and
choose the most appropriate title. Something
simple is usually best as long as it captures
the essence of the dream. Anything from
"Red ants in a rainforest" to "Class reunion
on an airplane" will be fine. If you have
several different dreams during the night,
it is best to separate and title each
one. Mixing separate dreams together may
make the dream's message harder to find
and may make choosing a distinctive title
nearly impossible. The main purpose of
titling your dreams is to make them easier
to access at a glance when you are looking
through your dream journal.
Now, if you
are like me or like most people, I am
assuming one of two things. You are either
going to think you can learn to lucid
dream without keeping a dream journal
or else you will start keeping a dream
journal and before you know it, it will
be gathering dust next to that book you
meant to read. I say this only because
I thought the same way. Not to say that
it could not be done, anything is possible,
but why not increase your odds, maximize
your results, and speed up the process
with a proven method. Once you get into
the habit of keeping your journal, it
will become as routine as putting your
clothes on in the morning. Although it
gets easier with time, in the beginning
it is helpful to have some pointers.
Keeping
a dream journal is not the easiest thing
to do. I have spent many a day thumbing
through random pieces of papers scribbled
with dream accounts. To make the beginning
of the process easier I have several suggestions
based on several different approaches
I have tried combined with the advice
of others. It seems like such a simple
thing. You dream, you wake up, and you
write down your dreams. Well, there's
more to it. For example, when you awaken
if you start writing in your journal as
you are recalling the nights dreams, it
is hard to remember everything accurately
in the right sequence. You may have already
moved on to a new scene but then you remember
something you had forgotten. This prompted
me to write everything I could remember
on a sheet of paper and then after doing
this I would write an organized account
of it in my journal. This works fine if
you have lots of free time but with time
being a valuable commodity it is rather
inefficient.
Along with
the difficulty of balancing your time
and determining how organized you need
to have your journal, another problem
you will encounter is the simple fact
that you have to do a lot of writing which
in itself can become monotonous. The best
approach is to recall all that you can
in your head before writing anything,
but even so you probably will remember
more as you are writing it. By recording
your dreams only on the right-hand pages
of the journal, you can write late arriving
memories on the left-hand page and conveniently
draw an arrow to the portion of the dream
in which it occurred. You can also use
the left-hand pages to draw pictures of
any dream objects or maps of the dreamscape.
This tip may require you to buy double
the amount of journals, but if you want
more organized entries it certainly works.
If you do choose
to use this method, you should use the
left-hand pages to record what you did
while awake that day, where you went,
who you saw, etc
Whether you use
the left/right page method or not, you
should include this daily information
somewhere in your journal, preferably
on the same page as your dream entries.
This can be very helpful when you are
looking for patterns in your dreams. For
example, I have found that I will often
dream about things from two days before
or two days after the dream. If I watched
a program about natural disasters on Monday,
I would not be surprised if I dreamed
about it on Wednesday. If I dream about
a person who I have not heard from in
a while, they will usually call me two
days later. I don't know why it happens,
but by analyzing my dreams and the journal
entries of what I did for the day, I have
found this to be one of my patterns.
Many people
recommend using a dictaphone to record
your dreams. Upon awakening you can just
speak your dreams aloud into the recorder,
and enter them into your journal later.
I've tried this method and find that for
me at least it is not the way to go. It
is not very time efficient. It certainly
is easier to record them verbally, but
the problem comes when you are transcribing
these tapes. It takes far too long to
listen to these recordings and write them
down in your journal, and you still have
the problem of trying to keep the dream's
sequence in order which becomes even more
troublesome when you use a tape recorder.
There are
many different styles of journal keeping
and everyone may have a natural preference,
but if you want to save some time. Learning
mostly through trial and error, I have
developed the easiest and most efficient
method. Prompted by the idea of how wonderful
it would be if the Dictaphone could write
up my journal entries for me, I employed
the help of my personal computer. I purchased
a speech to text recognition program called
vivacious. It will convert what you say
into text on your computer screen. You
speak at a normal pace and it does all
the typing for you, and you can use it
directly with Microsoft Word, my word
processing program. The speech to text
program was on fifty dollars and it works
just fine for a dream journal. It may
make an occasion error but the journal
entries are extremely legible and the
time saved is enormous. It completely
removes the burden of writing down your
dreams and it totally solves the problem
of jumbled dream sequences because you
can cut and paste any misplaced dream
fragments into their appropriate place.
If you have the resources, this is by
far the easiest and most efficient way
of keeping a dream journal.
Step
Four) Becoming familiar with your Dreams
As your
dream journal grows and your dream recall
increases, naturally you will become more
familiar with your dreams. Certain people,
certain places, and certain activities
may be more likely to appear in your dreams.
For example, you may have a majority of
dreams in which you are at your office
or at school or at the beach. Certain
dream themes might also be more common
than others. You might dream of being
a hero or you might dream of being chased.
These recurrent patterns in your dreams
are your dreamsigns, and they will be
the first stepping stones on your path
to lucid dreaming.
By learning
your distinctive dreamsigns, you will
be able to further increase your recall.
Making a list of your dreamsigns is a
great idea. If you are having trouble
recalling any dreams, you can run down
your list of dream signs and question
yourself to see if any of them will spark
a memory. Sometimes, by jarring just one
dream fragment loose you can recover the
whole dream, so knowing and using your
dreamsigns will give you just the edge
you need to overcome a morning bout of
dream amnesia.
By working
with your dreamsigns, you will develop
an intimate relationship with your dreams.
They will become more accessible and easier
to understand. It is helpful to ask yourself
why you are dreaming what you dream. What
do these dreamsigns mean to you? The more
you understand not only your dreamsigns
but what they mean, the more you will
benefit from them in both your dream life
and your waking life.
If at first
you are having trouble identifying your
dreamsigns, realize that your dreamsigns
don't have to be something unordinary.
As a matter of fact, they may be the most
ordinary thing. For example, you may have
dreams about your previous day or you
may dream of cleaning your house. Whatever
it is that you dream about, you need to
be noting the patterns and commonalties.
You can start with whatever patterns you
notice no matter how insignificant they
seem. Using these as a springboard, you
will soon begin to notice more patterns
developing. The process of looking for
patterns may in fact create the patterns
themselves so if you are having trouble
finding your dreamsigns, just keep looking
and they will emerge.
The quest
to discover and understand your dreamsigns
is a lifelong journey because your dream
signs are continually evolving just like
you. Some themes may last for only a week
and then disappear, only to resurface
a month later. Other dream signs will
last much longer. As times change and
you change, your dreamsigns being a reflection
of you and your thoughts will change as
well. Keeping up with your dreamsigns
will keep you in touch with yourself.
With the help
of your journal, you can easily spot the
recurrent dreamsigns and you can get an
overview of how they are changing. As
you are making entries to your journal,
you should make note of any dreamsigns
that you spot. You can underline them
or put a star next to them. Any notation
will due as long as it is consistent and
noticeable. The idea is to have them accessible
at a glance so when you pick up your journal
in a year you can easily see the change
in the pattern of patterns, your ever-changing
dreamsigns.
Identifying
your dreamsigns also plays a crucial part
in the lucid dreaming process. Your dreamsigns
are in effect "signs that you are dreaming",
and as you will soon learn in the sixth
step, you can train yourself to notice
your dreamsigns while you are dreaming
and this will be the springboard into
lucidity.
Step
Five) Adding Awareness to your Waking
Consciousness
This
step alone could be the source of countless
books. It is almost a method in itself,
but used in conjunction with the other
steps, it becomes an optimal way to learn
lucid dreaming. As a matter of fact, the
whole process of lucid dreaming is achieved
by training your awareness. The idea is
to increase our daily awareness in order
to benefit from the carryover effects
it will have on our dreaming awareness.
If you are more aware during the day,
you will become more aware while dreaming.
There are
many ways to increase our awareness, and
we will delve into many of them in this
section. The handling and manipulation
of our awareness will become one of the
central issues for the rest of this manual.
As you exercise your awareness, you may
realize that you are not usually aware
of how unaware you are most of the day.
Since this
is such an important aspect, it is crucial
to have a workable understanding of these
concepts. The ultimate goal is learning
how to apply these principles to create
results. First, we will deal with the
concept of awareness and then we will
learn the practical applications. The
term awareness as we will be referring
to it applies to your consciousness. How
conscious are you? It alludes to your
current level of self-observation. How
aware are you of your awareness? It refers
to your level of mindfulness. How centered
is your awareness? It refers to your waking
mental state of affairs. How truly aware
are you? For our purposes here, these
questions will culminate in your dreams
when you become aware that you are dreaming
by asking, am I dreaming?
For
many people these reflective questions
go unasked and in turn they remain unanswered.
They were never taught that there are
differing levels of awareness nor were
they ever taught how to cultivate a heightened
sense of awareness. To them, either one
is awake or one is sleeping. The fact
is that you can be fully conscious, semiconscious,
and not conscious at all in your dreams
as well as in your waking life. It is
all a matter of mindfulness. It all boils
down to your level of awareness.
Do you ever
realize you've been listening to the radio
and haven't heard it for minutes? Do you
ever drive somewhere methodically and
not remember the drive once you arrive?
How about misplacing your keys? Moments
of "zoning out" like this occur when your
awareness strays from the moment at hand.
It is a result of losing your mindfulness,
becoming attentionally uncentered. You
may have been daydreaming or planning
your day or truly "in a zone", but the
resulting experience is that you were
not aware of your position in your current
surroundings.
There is nothing
wrong with daydreaming or planning your
day. The point is that we often overlook
the transition of our awareness from one
moment to the next. The thoughts we have
often flutter through our minds without
us even taking note of them, let alone
actively taking part in their creation
and guidance. The point is not to be obsessed
with your surroundings but to be aware
of your awareness. Becoming aware of your
thoughts and thinking patterns is just
as important as identifying your dreamsigns
and dream patterns. Changing your thoughts
will change your awareness, and the idea
is to have your awareness programmed and
locked on self-observant aware mode instead
of running on an non-reflective autopilot
mode.
It is as if
we are normally aware of riding the crest
of a wave produced by external factors
instead of guiding our awareness ourselves.
We react more than we reflect which leads
to automated behavior. We become less
questioning which in turn reduces our
awareness to what we already know, or
think we know. We identify with our position
on this crest so habitually that after
a while we fail to realize that there
even are any other ways of viewing it.
We overlook our part in the ocean. We
overlook the active role that we play
in guiding our awareness.
Try to remain
aware of your awareness as if you were
a bystander just watching where it goes
and how it flows. The longer you can sustain
this level of awareness, the better. But
it isn't as easy as it sounds, and if
you think it is, try sustaining it all
day long and then realize how often you
lose your mindfulness. The fact is that
we aren't in the habit of being aware,
but this is a habit that must be changed.
How is your awareness flowing from one
point to the next? How often throughout
the day are you aware of your awareness
as well as your position in your surroundings?
It is this kind of mindfulness that you
need to cultivate. It is this kind of
centering and grounding of your awareness
in awareness that you need to practice
and develop until it becomes second nature,
or hopefully even first nature.
Practicing
meditation is an excellent way to exercise
your awareness. Studies done by Jayne
I. Gackenbach, a notable lucid dream researcher,
show a direct correlation between meditation
and lucid dreaming. People who meditate
have a greater likelihood of having lucid
dreams compared to non-meditators. Both
meditators and lucid dreamers "are able
to become "caught up" in an experience,
and are aware of their inner thoughts
and internal processes." (* Dreamtime,Dreamwork,
pg244-45) This could be due to the emphasis
put on consciously developing of one's
awareness. By exercising your awareness,
you are more able to be "in the moment",
an ability that greatly enhances your
lucid dreaming ability. "In addition,
meditators and lucid dreamers find it
easier to recall their dreams and tend
to be "field independent" (that is, they
could find their way out of a forest more
easily than "field dependent" people,
because they are not as easily influenced
by people or objects in their environment.)"
(*Dreamtime/work, pg 245) Other studies
by Alexander, Boyle, and Alexander have
shown that both lucid dreamers and meditators
"have less stress-related personality
characteristics" than their non-meditating
and non-lucid dreaming counterparts. If
lucid dreaming and meditating can have
these beneficial effects on our waking
self, imagine what can be accomplished
by practicing both of them symbiotically.
Meditation
and lucid dreaming are intimately linked.
By learning more about meditating and
practicing it regularly, you will be stacking
the odds in your favor when it comes to
lucid dreaming. Many of the principles
involved in meditation have a direct bearing
on lucid dreaming. Meditation can be used
to induce profound states of relaxation,
and these relaxed states are extremely
beneficial for inducing lucid dreams.
Also, the goal of many meditational approaches
is to silence the mind. Creating inner
silence and stopping one's internal dialogue
is an important technique we will be covering
later on when we discuss some of the methods
of inducing lucid dreams. Mediation also
develops the ability to have a detached
awareness, an awareness that allows itself
to operate like a slightly removed observer.
Once again, this ability to have a detached
awareness will be extremely useful when
attempting many of the lucid dream induction
techniques. Meditation in and of itself
requires developing a certain amount of
control over your awareness. Since this
is also a prerequisite for learning how
to lucid dream, it is highly advisable
to incorporate meditation into your lucid
dreaming regime.
Now that you have
an understanding of these concepts, the
best way to create results is to apply
them toward our goal, lucid dreaming.
In order to learn how to lucid dream,
you must be able to differentiate between
what is "reality" and what is a dream.
You must develop a questioning awareness.
While awake you should be regularly doing
"reality checks". There are two parts
to a reality check. The first part is
asking yourself if you are dreaming or
not, and the second part is testing your
surroundings to verify if in fact you
are dreaming or not.
These reality checks
should be done frequently throughout the
day. The idea is to ingrain this habit
into your daily routine so that it will
spill over into your dreams. If you practice
this consistently, it is just a matter
of time until you perform a reality check
while dreaming, and if you test your surroundings
carefully enough you will realize you
are dreaming. In the beginning, I would
set the alarm on my wristwatch to go off
every half hour as a constant reminder
to do my reality checks. Another technique
is to write one letter on each hand or
wrist and each time you notice the letters
you perform a reality check. You could
use an L on one and a D on the other to
stand for Lucid Dream or B and C for Become
Conscious. The letters themselves mean
very little. It is remembering to do the
reality check that matters, and if this
is a method you use regularly, it will
surely make its way into your dreams to
remind you to question your surroundings.
Asking if you
are dreaming is the easy part. The trick
is to be able to distinguish whether you
are really dreaming or not. The idea is
to look for strange or nonsensical things
that could only occur if you were dreaming,
but sometimes it is hard to tell. For
example, the idea of pinching yourself
to make sure you are not dreaming does
not hold any weight in the dream realm.
You will actually feel the pinch in your
dream so it may lead you to believe that
you aren't dreaming unless you perform
other tests.
For some reason,
we are much more accepting and much less
analytical of inconsistencies while dreaming
so performing multiple reality checks
maximizes our odds of becoming lucid if
in fact we are dreaming. It is also very
helpful to always assume that you are
dreaming even if the tests indicate otherwise.
You should keep testing and keep trying
all of the different reality checks until
one works, and only after you have exhausted
all options should you conclude that you
are not dreaming. As you get some experience,
you will see firsthand how important it
is to be questioning and persistent. But
luckily due to all the research into lucid
dreaming, reality checks are no longer
a hit or miss scenario. Many of them show
wide-ranging effectiveness among all dreamers.
Here
is a list of the most effective reality
checks:
1.)
The Common Sense Test: This is
the first and most obvious check. Examine
your surroundings for anything that logically
should not be there. Ask if this could
happen in your normal life. Look for inconsistencies.
Are you somewhere you have never been
before? Are you with people who live on
the other side of the country? Is there
an elephant in your kitchen? These are
the kinds of questions that can spark
your lucidity.
2.)
The Reading Check: This is one
of the most effective checks. Simply look
around and find something to read. After
reading it, look away and then look back
again to reread it. Do this several times.
If you are dreaming, the text or numbers
will usually change after several glances.
It may become garbled or may have changed
completely or it will not remain stable
while you are reading it. Anything containing
words or numbers will work: a book, a
street sign, an address. Many people use
the dial on their dream watch.
3.)
the Flying or Levitation Check:
This is another very effective check.
See if you are able to fly. If you are
not able to fly, try to levitate or hover
slightly above the ground. As you become
more skilled at lucid dreaming, this may
become your favorite check as it is mine.
The only down side is that at times you
may try this and be unable to fly or levitate,
yet you still may be dreaming. Always
remember to use this in combination with
other checks unless of course it works,
which in most cases it will.
4.)
The Light Switch Check: This is
usually a quite reliable check. Find a
light switch and turn it on and off. If
it malfunctions then the odds are you
are dreaming. Try it several times and
pay close attention to when it should
be on and when it should be off. It usually
will not take long before it malfunctions
or operates correctly while in the wrong
position.
5.)
The Memory Check: This is a very
effective but largely unknown method.
Simply backtrack in your mind where you
have just come from and what you have
been doing. Keep thinking back as far
as you can and eventually you may find
that there are inconsistencies in your
memory. By backtracking your dream memory,
you may also become aware of something
illogical that has happened which you
overlooked at the time. You also may find
that you have an amnesia-like block that
prevents you from remembering accurately.
In all of these cases, you can safely
assume that you are dreaming.
6.)
The Mirror Check: This is not only
an extremely effective method but as an
added bonus, it usually results in quite
a remarkable experience. Find a mirror
and while gazing at yourself, ask if you
are dreaming. You may become startled
by your reflection. You may be younger
or older or have different hairstyle and
hair color or you may even be someone
different entirely.
7.)
The Self Observation Test: This
is also a very useful check. Just take
a look at yourself. Examine your hands,
arms, legs, and clothing. Usually you
will immediately be tipped off that are
dreaming because you will be wearing clothes
that you do not own. Other times, simply
looking at your dream body will spark
your lucidity.
8.)
The Penetration of Matter Check: This
is not the most reliable method but it
has helped me on many occasions. Simply
try to push your finger through something
solid like a wall or a door or a glass.
At first, it may not work but if you believe
that you can do it, you eventually will
be able to pass your finger right through
any solid. As an added bonus on this check,
you are also developing your ability to
allow your beliefs to directly influence
your experience.
9.)
The Gravity Check: This is a somewhat
reliable check. Find something that you
can throw into the air and catch safely.
Start tossing it up and down and you may
just find that it isn't obeying the laws
of gravity as it should if you were in
"reality". To maximize the success of
this check, while tossing it into the
air try to effect the object's rise and
fall with your mind.
10.)
The Questioning of Dream Characters
Check: This may not be the best thing
to try while awake but sometimes it can
be effective if in fact you are dreaming.
In "reality" if you asked people if we
were in a dream, their response would
be to accuse you of being insane, yet
in the dream realm, it is sometimes a
different matter. Usually the dream characters
will deny that it is a dream, but they
deny it with an air of denial. They usually
never question your sanity, and in some
cases, they don't even understand what
you are saying and disregard you entirely.
Also, on rare occasions, someone in your
dream will admit that it is in fact a
dream.
As mentioned
earlier, these reality checks should be
practiced regularly throughout the day.
The more they become embedded into your
daily routine, the sooner they will appear
in your dreams. If there were one word
that sums up what you need to develop
in order to speed up the lucid dreaming
process, it would be awareness, awareness,
awareness. Working on your awareness will
have direct carryover effects into your
dreams, and once you become more skilled
at lucid dreaming you will realize that
your awareness combined with your intent
is your passport into the dream realm.
Step
Six) Linking your Awareness to your Dreams
This
last step is rather simple and easy compared
to the previous steps, and due to its
simplicity you should have no problem
incorporating it into your daily regime.
But before we move on, let's review where
you should be at right now. At this point,
you have done the mental prep-work, you
have been increasing your dream recall,
and you have been keeping your dream journal.
You are becoming familiar with what you
dream about, noticing your dreamsigns,
and exercising your awareness by meditating
and doing your reality checks consistently.
The final step
is to combine what you have learned about
your dreams with what you have learned
about your awareness. Put simply, you
need to merge your reality checks with
your dreamsigns so that whenever you encounter
one of your dreamsigns you automatically
start doing reality checks. If you dream
of classrooms or beaches or driving fast
in a car, whenever you see a classroom
or a beach or whenever you are driving
in a fast car you will be programmed to
do a reality check. The end result will
be this: Inevitably you are going to dream
about one of your dreamsigns and eventually
you are going to remember to do a reality
check and eventually you are going to
realize that you are dreaming.
It is helpful
to stay updated on your current dreamsigns
and dream themes. If you have been having
dreams of being chased for the past week,
you need to activate a trigger onto the
idea of being chased so that whenever
you are being chased you will realize
that you need to do a reality check. By
becoming intimately acquainted with your
dreamsigns and linking reality checks
to these dreamsigns, you will be laying
a solid foundation for future lucid dreaming
adventures.
As you can
see, these six steps are all interwoven
into one basic process. Leaving out just
one step will diminish the effectiveness
of all the other steps, and in turn, it
will decrease the actual results of the
entire process. Almost all of the other
techniques and methods mentioned for inducing
lucid dreams are based on this process
to a certain extent. Often, they are offshoots
of this process or are limited versions
of one or more of these six basic steps.
Study them and internalize them. Practice
them diligently and consistently and your
subconscious will become ingrained with
them. By following these six basic steps,
you will inevitably have a lucid dream.
Eventually these habits will carry
over into your dreams, and hopefully the
final payoff will be when you say, "Yes,
I am dreaming!"
stay
lucid,
bird
^v^